Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Breastfeeding and Nutrition


Well, we know the importance of a proper diet when breastfeeding, right??? Or atleast we're aware that what we ingest gets passed through our breast milk so some moms might avoid certain foods that make baby gassy etc.. We're also told that breastfeeding helps us to lose weight because it not also helps shrink the placenta to it's original size, but it also burns hundreds of calories a day. Ya!!

As a result, we eat additional calories (I was starving while I nursed) because it feels like the baby is literally sucking the life out of you. So then how are we supposed to lose weight? Well if you want to lose weight, you are supposed to create a calorie deficit - burn more calories than you are taking in. This can be done with a combination of exercise and a proper diet. So it makes sense to exercise more and eat less, right? Wrong!

I was recently at a fitness convention and took a workshop on nutrition for weight loss. She said that the Amrican guidelines say that nursing mothers should not cut calories at all. Even if you're nursing for a year and your baby is getting most of their nutrients from food, you not supposed to cut calories, as this may affect you milk supply. Well, I thought this a little extreme, to say the least.. but then I did a bit more investigating.

During pregnancy, you gain additional fat stores to help with the breatfeeding process. In other words, in addition to the 300-500 additional calories you need to ingest, the rest comes from the fat stores you have already aquired. Good news.. this means you get to burn that fat and use it as fuel to produce milk. So if you are breastfeeding, look at a slow, gradual weight loss of 1/2 - 1 lbs a week and don't try and limit any calories AT ALL until breastfeeding is well established.

Phew.... now it makes sense. I kept an additional 5-7 lbs on until I weaned both of my girls at 14 months and they were only down to one mini feed a day. You see, mother nature has a very funny way of keeping those extra fat stores just incase there's a shortage of food in the world. You may not be able to eat, but your baby still can.

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

In memory...

Man... what a lousy evening. I'm sitting here trying to figure out why I'm letting this affect me sooo much, and I know why. Because I'm an extremely emotional being that just wishes everyone around her (and herself) could just live a happy life without too much drama. Is that too much to ask?

Let me start from the beginning. Last week, my mom came by to watch the kids (she's my child care provider) and she had tears in her eyes. I immediately asked what was wrong. You see, her neighbours' daughter was pregnant and due the day before. She had been asking for daily updates about the sex etc.. until that day. When she was on her way over to my house, she dropped by her neighbours again to see if there was any news, to see a bouquet of flowers with a note that said "Sorry for your loss". So my mom showed up very upset because she didn't know if it was Melissa (the mother) or the baby, or both! Anyway, to make a long story short, it was the baby. she miscarried on her due date.

Of course your immediate reaction is "it's not fair", "why her", "on her due date?!!!". But in the end, when a baby miscarries, it's usually because there was something wrong with the pregnancy and it wasn't meant to be. Ya, easy for me to say. I'm sitting here typing away feeling like a rug has been pulled out from under me and that doesn't even put a dent into what Melissa is going through.

I just came home from giving my condolences and she looked really put together. The reality of what has happened has cleary not set in as yet, and it will. Thankfully, she has an amazing support system to help her through this and all I can do is offer my support, and I did. Coincidentally, her mom said she'll probably be in touch because Melissa wants to lose the baby weight because it's too much of a reminder. Little does she know that she needs that reminder to grieve and allow her body to naturally adjust to what has happened. Everything in time and I'll be there when she needs me.

My thoughts are with her.

Monday, August 11, 2008

Don't let the weather get you down...


This weather sucks! and it can put a toll on your emotions... especially if you're at home with a new baby.

As easy as it is for me to say, don't let the weather get you down. It's tough being at home with a newborn under the best of circumstances, but when the weather is clowdy, rainy and just plain gloomy, it can take everything in you not to throw in the towel. Just so you know... if you are experiencing some baby blues or postpartum depression, you are not alone.

Baby blues and postpartum depression is alot more common than you think. In fact, alot of moms suffer from these conditions and they don't even know it. They may be weepy or just not interested in going out and socializing. It can affect women in many different ways. The important thing is to be aware of your symptoms and surround yourself with a support system that can help you to overcome them before it becomes serious. The gloomy weather doesn't help either. It can increase feelings of isolation which doesn't help when you are trying to keep yourself motivated for the sake of your little one.

So if you think you maybe be feeling out of sorts, remember, your hormones take a long time to regulate after the birth of your child, so feelings of helplessness and sadness can be a very normal stage in new motherhood. On the other hand, if crying and low self worth become a daily occurance lasting more than 12 weeks postpartum, consider getting some help. It's out there.. you just need to ask.

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Summer's not over.... yet!


Well here we are and summer is almost over (I'm such a pessimist). But instead of getting all depressed over the somewhat nice weather ending, let's take advantage of what we have got left and get moving!!

Whether you are pregnant or not, try starting your day with a brisk walk and take advantage of the peace and quiet before the baby starts crying or rush hour is at an all time high. Or join a mom and baby yoga or fitness class that allows you to get out and enjoy the sunshine while getting some much needed activity that will help you continue on with your day.

Go to the park with your little one and pack a picnic lunch and watch your baby discover grass and birds. The fresh air is a guaranteed sleep stimulator for babies of all ages! This also allows you a bit of down time away from laundry, housework and anything else that may be clogging your brain! (Us moms do that you know..)

If you are pregnant and feeling hot, swollen and fatigued, find a local swimming pool and let the water cool you down while getting some exercise. If you have a chance to do this in the evening, this is another stimulator for relaxation and sleep.

Remember, the more active you are and the more time you can focus on stress and relaxation techniques, all the better for both you and your baby (or babies). This coming from someone who continues to struggle with trying to manage family, work and me time. Hey... we are all human.